¹⁸ This is how Jesus the Messiah was born. His mother, Mary, was engaged to be married to Joseph. But before the marriage took place, while she was still a virgin, she became pregnant through the power of the Holy Spirit. ¹⁹ Joseph, to whom she was engaged, was a righteous man and did not want to disgrace her publicly, so he decided to break the engagement quietly.

²⁰ As he considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream. “Joseph, son of David,” the angel said, “do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife. For the child within her was conceived by the Holy Spirit. ²¹ And she will have a son, and you are to name him Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.”

²² All of this occurred to fulfill the Lord’s message through his prophet:

²³ “Look! The virgin will conceive a child!
    She will give birth to a son,
and they will call him Immanuel,
    which means ‘God is with us.’”

²⁴ When Joseph woke up, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded and took Mary as his wife. ²⁵ But he did not have sexual relations with her until her son was born. And Joseph named him Jesus.

Matthew 1:18-25

Dear God, I think Joseph wanted to believe Mary. He wanted it for her sake. He wanted it for his own sake. He didn’t want to be angry. He didn’t want to abandon her. He certainly didn’t want to disgrace her or have her stoned. So when he had this dream, he was totally willing to go with it. I say this because if this dream came to me and I didn’t want to follow it then I’d have done an Ebeneezer Scrooge and blamed the vision on something I ate. But Joseph went with the dreams you sent him.

I’ve said it many times, but as a man, there is no biblical character I admire more than Joseph. The guy is just awesome. Give me someone in history outside of my paternal grandfather I’d like to have dinner with and pepper with questions and get to know him, and it would be Joseph. I trust you’d help me overcome the language barrier when I’m with him. In fact, if it’s possible, I look forward to visiting with him one day in the next life. His character just seems so remarkable. I’d love to know how it developed and who he was as a man.

Father, I guess this is just another day when I say that I want to offer myself to you in a selfless way. I want to be the kind of man who wants to see the best and assume the best in others. I want to want to do the absurd thing not only because it’s what you call me to do but because it fits within my moral code regardless of its absurdity. I want to want to love the sinful and unlovable. Help me to be all these things today.

I pray this in Jesus and with your Holy Spirit,

Amen