6 There is another serious tragedy I have seen under the sun, and it weighs heavily on humanity. ² God gives some people great wealth and honor and everything they could ever want, but then he doesn’t give them the chance to enjoy these things. They die, and someone else, even a stranger, ends up enjoying their wealth! This is meaningless—a sickening tragedy.

³ A man might have a hundred children and live to be very old. But if he finds no satisfaction in life and doesn’t even get a decent burial, it would have been better for him to be born dead. ⁴ His birth would have been meaningless, and he would have ended in darkness. He wouldn’t even have had a name, ⁵ and he would never have seen the sun or known of its existence. Yet he would have had more peace than in growing up to be an unhappy man. ⁶ He might live a thousand years twice over but still not find contentment. And since he must die like everyone else—well, what’s the use?

⁷ All people spend their lives scratching for food, but they never seem to have enough. ⁸ So are wise people really better off than fools? Do poor people gain anything by being wise and knowing how to act in front of others?

⁹ Enjoy what you have rather than desiring what you don’t have. Just dreaming about nice things is meaningless—like chasing the wind.

¹⁰ Everything has already been decided. It was known long ago what each person would be. So there’s no use arguing with God about your destiny.

¹¹ The more words you speak, the less they mean. So what good are they?

¹² In the few days of our meaningless lives, who knows how our days can be spent? Our lives are like a shadow. Who can tell what will happen on this earth after we are gone?

Ecclesiastes 6

Dear God, “one thing [he] lacks.” That’s what came to mind when I started to pray about this passage. Solomon (or the person writing in his voice) is missing something so key. He’s missing the part about loving others and following you. It reminded me of the rich young ruler in Mark 10:

¹⁷ As Jesus was starting out on his way to Jerusalem, a man came running up to him, knelt down, and asked, “Good Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?”

¹⁸ “Why do you call me good?” Jesus asked. “Only God is truly good. ¹⁹ But to answer your question, you know the commandments: ‘You must not murder. You must not commit adultery. You must not steal. You must not testify falsely. You must not cheat anyone. Honor your father and mother.’”

²⁰ “Teacher,” the man replied, “I’ve obeyed all these commandments since I was young.”

²¹ Looking at the man, Jesus felt genuine love for him. “There is still one thing you haven’t done,” he told him. “Go and sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

²² At this the man’s face fell, and he went away sad, for he had many possessions.

This guy was trying so hard without giving all of himself. I think the same can be said of Solomon. He wanted so badly to have everything. He didn’t want to sacrifice anything for the good of someone else. Even the idea that he would work to accumulate things and then someone else could inherit and enjoy them appalled him. It’s a very self-centered view of the world. If Solomon had come to Jesus like this young ruler did and asked, “What must I do to be happy?” I think Jesus would have had a similar answer for him. Solomon pursued money, possessions, women, and land. He was a harsh king. His son was even more harsh than he was (1 Kings 12:1-15). Solomon lost his love for you and for others through his pursuit of self.

Of course, now it’s time to turn the lens and focus it on myself. Am I pursuing myself? In the things at work that are causing me stress, am I stressed because I am not sure how to accomplish the things you want me to accomplish, or am I stressed because the things that are a struggle might reflect poorly on me? Am I there for others and do I want things to be good for others, or do I want them to be good so I can have a good, easy time? Of course, there is some of both, but I confess to you right now that a good bit of my ego is in there too.

Father, as things come up today, make my focus all about worshiping you and loving others. When I problem comes up, help me to put you first and foremost. Help me to put your will for others first and foremost. Help me to love as you love. Help me to pray, serve, persuade, and suffer for others. It’s all about you. It’s all about how you will use me to love others. My joy will come through those two things.

I pray all of this in Jesus and with your Holy Spirit,

Amen