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When last we left off
- David had killed Goliath and made himself a hero
- Saul who already knew David wanted to know more about his family.
- Jonathan, Saul’s son, saw something special in David and they became best friends – 1 Samuel 18:1-4 – 18 Now when he had finished speaking to Saul, the [a]soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. 2 Saul took him that day, and would not let him go home to his father’s house anymore. 3 Then Jonathan and David made a covenant, because he loved him as his own soul. 4 And Jonathan took off the robe that was on him and gave it to David, with his armor, even to his sword and his bow and his belt.
David’s Rise and Saul’s Insecurity
- Saul put David in charge of some fighting men and David had success.
- At first Saul was pleased with David’s success.
- Then he heard the songs the women would sing. 1 Samuel 18:7-9 – 7 So the women sang as they danced, and said:
“Saul has slain his thousands,
And David his ten thousands.”
8 Then Saul was very angry, and the saying displeased him; and he said, “They have ascribed to David ten thousands, and to me they have ascribed only thousands. Now what more can he have but the kingdom?” 9 So Saul [d]eyed David from that day forward.
- This is the real beginning of Saul’s unraveling
- Everything we are about to read for the rest of Saul’s life will be driven by this jealousy and insecurity.
- Saul kept trying to put David in harm’s way so the Philistines would kill him, including offering him his daughter Merab if he will go out and fight the Philistines again, but David says he’s not worthy to be the king’s son-in-law.
- Later Michal wants him so Saul offers her to David for 100 Philistine foreskins.
- David and his men kill 200 Philistines and produce their foreskins for Saul and Saul gave him Michal, but… 1 Samuel 18:29 – And Saul was still more afraid of David. So Saul became David’s enemy continually.
Saul begins plotting to kill David
- Saul starts talking about his plans out loud to his advisors and his son Jonathan.
- Jonathan warns David and then convinces his father David deserves thanks and kindness, not death. Saul relents.
- David is playing the harp for Saul while he’s in a bad place, Saul flips out and tries to throw a spear at him. David escapes and goes home.
- Michal saves David.
- Michal throws David under the bus
- David goes to Ramah to see Samuel
- Saul sends men to bring David back
- Group one starts prophecying
- Group two starts prophecying
- Group three starts prophecying
- Saul prophecies
- David escapes to find Jonathan
David’s and Jonathan’s plan
- David finds Jonathan and tries to figure out why Saul is trying to kill him.
- Jonathan doesn’t believe it. 1 Samuel 20:2-3 – 2 So Jonathan said to him, “By no means! You shall not die! Indeed, my father will do nothing either great or small without first telling me. And why should my father hide this thing from me? It is not so!”
3 Then David took an oath again, and said, “Your father certainly knows that I have found favor in your eyes, and he has said, ‘Do not let Jonathan know this, lest he be grieved.’ But truly, as the Lord lives and as your soul lives, there is but a step between me and death.”
- David and Jonathan plan a test for Saul to see if it’s true.
- The festival is coming. If Saul is cool with David’s absence then no big deal, but if he is angry then Jonathan will see Saul’s heart towards David revealed.
- Jonathan asks that David will treat him and his descendants well in the future.
- Saul fails Jonathan’s test. 1 Samuel 20:28-34 – 28 So Jonathan answered Saul, “David earnestly asked permission of me to go to Bethlehem. 29 And he said, ‘Please let me go, for our family has a sacrifice in the city, and my brother has commanded me to be there. And now, if I have found favor in your eyes, please let me get away and see my brothers.’ Therefore he has not come to the king’s table.”
30 Then Saul’s anger was aroused against Jonathan, and he said to him, “You son of a perverse, rebellious woman! Do I not know that you have chosen the son of Jesse to your own shame and to the shame of your mother’s nakedness? 31 For as long as the son of Jesse lives on the earth, you shall not be established, nor your kingdom. Now therefore, send and bring him to me, for he [f]shall surely die.”
32 And Jonathan answered Saul his father, and said to him, “Why should he be killed? What has he done?” 33 Then Saul cast a spear at him to [g]kill him, by which Jonathan knew that it was determined by his father to kill David.
34 So Jonathan arose from the table in fierce anger, and ate no food the second day of the month, for he was grieved for David, because his father had treated him shamefully.
- The next day, Jonathan warns David and they say goodbye to each other. 1 Samuel 20:41-42 – 41 As soon as the lad had gone, David arose from a place toward the south, fell on his face to the ground, and bowed down three times. And they kissed one another; and they wept together, but David more so. 42 Then Jonathan said to David, “Go in peace, since we have both sworn in the name of the Lord, saying, ‘May the Lord be between you and me, and between your descendants and my descendants, forever.’ ” So he arose and departed, and Jonathan went into the city.
David the Fugitive
- David deceives a lot of people in chapter 21
- Tells Ahimelec he’s on a secret mission from Saul and he’s not alone but the young men have gone where he told them to go.
- Got any bread or weapons.
- Just consecrated holy bread
- Just Goliath’s sword.
- Doeg the Edomite is watching
- David goes to Gath and sees Achish the king
- Achish’s people don’t trust David. 1 Samuel 21:11 – 11 And the servants of Achish said to him, “Is this not David the king of the land? Did they not sing of him to one another in dances, saying:
- ‘Saul has slain his thousands,
And David his ten thousands’?” - David decides deception is his best bet. 1 Samuel 21:12-15 – 12 Now David took these words [d]to heart, and was very much afraid of Achish the king of Gath. 13 So he changed his behavior before them, pretended [e]madness in their hands, [f]scratched on the doors of the gate, and let his saliva fall down on his beard. 14 Then Achish said to his servants, “Look, you see the man is insane. Why have you brought him to me? 15 Have I need of madmen, that you have brought this fellow to play the madman in my presence? Shall this fellow come into my house?”
- David decides it’s not safe there and takes off for a cave. This is when people start to come to him. 1 Samuel 22:1-2 – 22 David therefore departed from there and escaped to the cave of Adullam. So when his brothers and all his father’s house heard it, they went down there to him. 2 And everyone who was in distress, everyone who was in debt, and everyone who was [a]discontented gathered to him. So he became captain over them. And there were about four hundred men with him.
- Remember this description of David’s men for next week.
- David decides it’s not safe for his parents to be with him so he takes them to the king of Moab and they are safe there. (Ruth connection)
- A prophet named Gad tells David he needs to leave and go to Judah so David takes off.
Meanwhile, Saul is Hunting David
- Saul heard that David was back in Judah and chastised his men, who were from his tribe of Israel, Benjamin (David was from Judah). 1 Samuel 22:7-8 – 7 then Saul said to his servants who stood about him, “Hear now, you Benjamites! Will the son of Jesse give every one of you fields and vineyards, and make you all captains of thousands and captains of hundreds? 8 All of you have conspired against me, and there is no one who reveals to me that my son has made a covenant with the son of Jesse; and there is not one of you who is sorry for me or reveals to me that my son has stirred up my servant against me, to lie in wait, as it is this day.”
- Doeg the Edomite pipes up and tells Saul about Ahimelech helping David
- Saul has Ahimelech and all of the other priests brought to him.
- Saul’s men won’t kill the priests so he gets Doeg to kill all 85 priests, and all their families and livestock (doing to them what he wouldn’t do to the Amalekites back in chapter 15)
- One priest escapes, Abiathar, and runs to David to tell him. Abiathar will stay with David, be his priest and will remain loyal to him later in David’s reign when one of his son’s tries to overthrow him.
David helps Keilah
- David hears the Philistines are stealing from an Israelite town called Keilah.
- David gets confirmation from God to go.
- This is first time to lead his 400 men into battle.
- They are scared. 1 Samuel 23:3 – 3 But David’s men said to him, “Look, we are afraid here in Judah. How much more then if we go to Keilah against the armies of the Philistines?
- David makes sure with God and gets confirmation.
- David leads them and they are successful
- However, they expose themselves to Saul and he heads that way.
- David asks God if the Keilah people will hand him over. God says they will so David runs.
- Saul hears David was gone and calls off the trip to Keilah.
One last meeting for David and Jonathan
- David has 600 men now.
- Saul is searching for him but can’t find him. 1 Samuel 23:14 – 14 And David stayed in strongholds in the wilderness, and remained in the mountains in the Wilderness of Ziph. Saul sought him every day, but God did not deliver him into his hand.
- Jonathan goes to encourage David. 1 Samuel 23:16-18 – 16 Then Jonathan, Saul’s son, arose and went to David in the woods and [d]strengthened his hand in God. 17 And he said to him, “Do not fear, for the hand of Saul my father shall not find you. You shall be king over Israel, and I shall be next to you. Even my father Saul knows that.” 18 So the two of them made a covenant before the Lord. And David stayed in the woods, and Jonathan went to his own house.
- Note: Jonathan encouraged David
- Jonathan affirmed David would be king whether Jonathan lived or died
- Jonathan reaffirmed their vows to each other
- Jonathan went home (wasn’t with the army looking for David)
- The people of Ziph try to show Saul loyalty. Saul is grateful but his self-pity shows through. 1 Samuel 23:21 – 21 And Saul said, “Blessed are you of the Lord, for you have compassion on me.
- The rest of the chapter is Saul chasing David and just when he was about to catch up to him and his men he got word the Philistines were attacking so he broke off to battle them.
Wrap Up
- What was driving Saul? Who did he hurt through his selfishness?
- David
- Jonathan
- Michal
- Samuel
- Ahimelech, the 85 priests and all of their families
- David’s family
- The people of Ziph
- What was driving Jonathan? Did he hurt anyone in this story?
- Joe and Larry are going to talk about our motivations tonight and what needs we are trying to meet when we are motivated to do something.
- These stories are a reminder to me that it’s not enough to be motivated, but if my motives are selfish then the odds are that I am going to step on people and hurt them on my way more than I will help people and bless them.
Dear God, this is what I came up with as my outline for tonight. I offer it up to you. I offer it up at you as worship. I offer it up to you as something that you hopefully might use to teach the people in the room. I offer it up to you as something you might use to teach me.
I think the big thing I probably need to add to it is my own personal lesson. What are you teaching me about myself through this lesson? Do I use people out of my selfishness? Do I want things for myself regardless of what it will cost someone else for me to get it?
I can think of one particular area in my life where I vacillate between really wanting the best for someone regardless of what it costs me and feeling sorry for myself and wanting them to give me what I want regardless of how they feel. At those lowest moments, I wonder why they can’t see they are wrong and just do what I want them to do?!? But in my best moments, when I am closest with you, I pray for their hurts and their healing regardless of what it costs me. In fact, I want to pay any price so that they might be happy and fulfilled in their lives. That’s me at my best. That’s the tradition of Jonathan here.
Father, use me tonight in the lives of these men. Use me in the lives of the people with whom I work. Use me as I visit with the county commissioners about my day-job this morning. Use me at Rotary when I have lunch and meet with my friends and maybe some people I don’t know as well. Use me to love my wife and my children. Use me in the lives of my siblings and siblings-in-law, parents, nieces, and nephews however you will. I give you all my worship and praise, Father.
I pray all of this in Jesus and with your Holy Spirit,
Amen